Wednesday, 1 October 2008

Update on Paolo

I told you that he had been emailing me on Monday evening. Whilst I was writing that he began sending me text messages then I got an invite to chat on msn. We chatted for about an our and a half. I began to see a sexy side to him that I hadn't picked up on during our many conversations over the months. Until recently I believed he was a respectable happily married man. But he has split from his wife during that time. He seems to be quite happy with his life. Anyway where was I ? oh yes we chatted until bedtime. I was just dozing off when he sent me a picture, bearing in mind that I had mentioned that he could send me a picture but I prefer suggestive rather than full on in your face. So thats what he did, two suggestive pictures, in my sleepy state it took me a while to realise I was looking at a bare leg.

I was woken up in the morning by my phone ringing. As I was peering at my phone trying to figure out that this was a call not my alarm it went to voice mail. It was Paulo leaving me a message saying how sexy he thinks I am and he really enjoyed chatting the night before. During the day he must have rung me four or five times making excuses to ring. He says he can't stop thinking about me. I turn him on so much and he loves my sexy voice. I didn't hear from him at all on Tuesday evening but he made up for that on Wednesday.

As I was going to work I got a 'good morning sexy' text. Throughout the day I was getting text and more phone calls. One of which he was telling me in graphic detail what he wants to do to me, knowing that as I work in an open plan office I couldn't say much other than that I was getting hot, I could feel myself blushing.

The way things were going I put my hands free on when I drove home just in case he called which he did. When I arrived home I just sat in my car as we continued to talk. We talked a lot and I told him that yes I am enjoying the attention and no he doesn't have to stop (he doesn't want to tread on Romeo's toes) but that I am feeling sad that all this attention is coming from someone else not Romeo. He is very understanding about how I feel. We also talked about what we are looking for, that I want a LTR but he doesn't. He is enjoying being single and doesn't want a woman in his life.

After I had been indoors for a while I got a call from PB, her so had seen me sitting in my car for ages (40 mins) and was concerned there was something wrong so she was checking I was ok. Later in the evening Paulo was chatting on msn again. So from all this I get that Paulo has liked me since January, but in the last few weeks we have become closer and this week he has become besotted but he doesn't want a relationship (just as well as he is two hours away). I don't know how long this serious flirting will last, I won't be dropping Romeo in favour of Paulo. Will I actually meet him I don't know, will that change our working relationship? who knows. He isn't working today (Thursday)but says he will still call me.

I am still waiting to hear from Romeo so I don't know where I am with him right now.

12 comments:

Mei Del said...

i think you are entitled to a bit of fun while romeo has gone completely quiet on you. think about it - if you were romeo and didn't even attempt to keep in touch with your lady in red, you can't expect her to remain faithful physically and if you did you must be some kind of perverse sicko at worst and callous at best.

and returning to lady in red herself, after all you are already indulging in flirting, how bad would going the whole hog be? if this is a measure of how things in a long term relationship with romeo is - could you get used to it?

Fex said...

Decisions, decisions, decisions. Interested to see where all this will lead...

Lady in red said...

mei very strong words which I have been thinking about since I first read them at lunch time.

I have heard from Romeo today, not much but at least it was something.

Lady in red said...

fex its good to see you

I don't know where this will lead me. what I would like is for Romeo to come home so that we can spend some much needed time together, and for Paulo to have got as much enjoyment from our mutual flirting as I have (I believe he has) and for it not to get in the way of our working relationship.

Some of the time in the last few days I have thought that yes I would like to have a fling with Paulo but to be honest I doubt I would. Even if he didn't know I would feel I was betraying Romeo.

Mei Del said...

i'm sorry i haven't been tactful ... at least he called you today ...

Elaine said...

I think it's time you and Romeo had a talk. x

Lady in red said...

Mei you are alright you just made me think. I was even considering sending your words to Romeo.

Lady in red said...

Elaine I quite agree with you. We used to be so good at talking and now we need to talk and I cant get him to talk.

Rae!xx said...

Enjoy the attention you deserve it..xx

Fire Byrd said...

There is nothing wrong with you haveing attention from Pablo, he knows the score.
Just enjoy it for what it gives you.
And maybe Elainehas the best advice here.
hugs
xx

Fire Byrd said...

lets try Paulo!!!

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