Tuesday 19 May 2009

answers on a postcard

Ok just to put you out of your misery, nothing has happened. But as Fire Byrd worked out it is to do with Plumber. From the beginning I have had my suspicions, but he has maintained all along that he is seperated from his wife and living with his mother. He tells me that he still pays the mortgage on the marital home and still keeps all his tools there. He comes and goes when his wife is not there and house/cat sits when she is away. From the start I thought this was odd, but as they say



'theres nowt stranger than folk'



Anyway as the weeks have gone by I have given him plenty of opportunities to admit that he isn't seperated, but he still carries on. Last night we had this conversation. He still hasn't said that he is still with his wife but thats my interpretation. He does know that I have been involved with a married man before so why would he not tell me the truth?





when does this start?

what
your house sitting when you are planning to kidnap me
end of the month after the 30th i hope
so end of next week then
i have an aussie mate staying with me next week so i hope he has gone by the sunday
the one that came over for wedding
yep
i was going to have u stay on the sat nite but he wants to come to the gig on the sat


thats ok
I understand
theres only two seats in your van

so i hope he has gone on the sunday if not i think he will go on the monday
if not it wil be tues
no i can take the car i just have to say u are a friend
as he thinks me and her are still together
I am assuming that most people do
and we have not told many people that we are living apart at the moment
apart from your mum
so we are putting on a front at the moment / yes
so when you have mates round it is at the marital home not your mums
yes it is
sad aint i
so do u want to come to that gig
we are playing this friday but other half will be there unfortunatly
I will see not sure at the moment
so don`t want any friction yet but u are very wellcome to come
i have had the third degree from most of the band saying who was that u were chatting to at the last gig LOL!!!!
Lol
i told them u were my brush sales lady LOL!!!
and you said you were helping me with my plumbing?
no with your drainage problem of squirty parts LOL!!!




So what do you think?

10 comments:

DJ Kirkby said...

Still married or still wants to be...

Anonymous said...

I have to agree with DJ. Guy is either very very married or having serious denial problems.

Elaine Denning said...

I'll go with that, too.

What couples lie to their mates about the state of their relationship? What would be the point?

Bloody men.

Fire Byrd said...

Having his cake and eating it too!!! And not being honest so he can have it all.
Wanker!
xx

Dark Side said...

I used to have a decorator who said the same, I never saw him because I was with someone else when I met him but he did pester the life out of me which Paul who I was with at the time thought was highly amusing...

He claimed constantly he wasn't with his wife and was living with his mother, thankfully I wasn't interested but for the record he is still with his wife to this date....and still tells people he isn't married and we all know he is.

We feel very sorry for his wife.

I hope it turns out to be wrong because he seemed good for you but if not you are better off without him...xx

CheekyDani said...

He sounded pretty great until this point but anyone who isn't telling their friends they've separated from their wife (and why wouldn't you?! The support you get from friends and family at an otherwise complicated and upsetting time is invaluable) is dodgy I'd reckon. And if he's not even separated and got used to his own space again, well, how is he going to be properly integrated with yours, and be a proper support to you? I think a frank conversation indicating why you're not attending his gig or other events is in order!

What a freaking shame honey. x

Chris Ford said...

Married.... without a doubt.
I've just noticed your date tally... WTF?!

Donna said...

Just passing by and noticed the word...Plumber..Hahaaa...loose him!!!!

Mel said...

Well, I'm not pleased at his choice to lie, regardless of the circumstances--separated or not.

UNcool....*sigh*

Lady in red said...

I think I will ask him if he has told his wife yet.

But I shall wait until after he has put the promised dish washer in for me!