stylish or not?

I was playing with pictures while I was chatting to both JJ and Si this afternoon. The last picture I put up before Si had to leave work and go home was the picture I sent to Mr Passionate while I was waiting for him to visit me at the hotel after Forest had left. I had taken and used it to tease him in the hour before he arrived. JJ has seen this picture before but he said he likes it, I quite like it too but to me it says 'tart'.or at best 'sexy'

He disagrees,

see what you think.

JJ says he thinks it is stylish!!

I think his interpretation of stylish is different to mine.

Oh and I have put a picture of the birthday cake on my side bar.