We have now been divorced for a little over 4 years yet several times a year and yesterday was one of those times he asks the question
Is there any chance we can try again?
No
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- Divorced mother of four boys in my mid forties, Cancer survivor, slowly changing my life for the better. this blog will reflect my journey. Love, life, humour, heartache its all a part of me.
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- Hector (facebook friend)
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1996
some of my favourite songs not in any order
- The Power of Love - Jennifer Rush
- Let the Music Play - Barry White
- Lady in Red - Chris de Burgh
- Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
- All woman - Lisa Stansfield
- Man! I feel like a woman - Shania Twain
- I will survive - Gloria Gaynor
- I bruise easily - Natasha Bedingfield
- Don't Cha - Pussycat Dolls
- I'm not in love - 10CC
- nights in white satin - Moody Blues
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- Romeo
- Forest
- ET
- DC
- Plumber
- OJ
- my mum
- JA
- SF
- work
- Neptune
- my boys
- dating
- oxo
- Harvey
- Kama
- family
- thomas
- bloggers
- friendship
- Lotto
- Mr Passionate
- Prada Pixie
- Sammy
- money
- money worries
- Golf
- Skipper
- blogging
- swinger
- creative writing
- the man
- LV
- dj Kirkby
- house repairs
- Fire Byrd
- University
- cancer
- my family
- texts
- Mei Del
- fantasy
- grandad
- happy
- men
- mobile phones
- raf
- Christmas Day
- Coach
- Echo
- Hector
- LiR loves Romeo
- Vi
- diet
- driving
- gym
- karma
- love
- paulo
- telephone flirting
- too tired
- Boss Lady
- Chopper
- Damien
- Diabetes
- Happy Birthday
- Internet dating
- Lady in Red
- N.
- NL
- Queen Vixen
- Sailor
- aunty
- bank
- being happy
- books
- breast cancer
- dinner for two
- feeling poorly
- finding work
- flirting
- friend
- happy New Year
- innocent
- married men
- mulder
- my grandmother
- photos
- ronjazz
- sex
- stockings
- tarot cards
- wednesday
- Dylan
- Emma
- FF
- Garfield
- Giggles
- JJ
- JVIP
- Jeff
- Meme's
- Trousers
- a drive in the sun
- a lovely first date
- adult fantasies
- awards
- bed
- being blonde
- blonde moments
- cars
- charlie
- cheekydani
- chocolate
- computers
- eating regime
- ebay bidding
- ebay bidiing
- emails
- face book
- fireman sam
- food
- funeral
- gardening
- going to the gym again
- headaches
- illness
- internet problems
- kisses
- knee operation
- life after cancer
- my birthday
- my car
- new bed
- new job
- nitebyrd
- owning my cancer part one
- owning my cancer part two
- party time
- passion
- posh bird
- prom
- proud mother
- radiotherapy
- rubbish clearance
- shoes
- snow
- sparks
- teasing
- trixie
- walks
- war child
- writing class
- Alpha Romeo
- Annual leave
- Chip
- Crisis
- Easter weekend
- Fat controller
- HM Revenue
- Honesty
- Interview
- Luigi
- MD
- MOT
- Mr Green
- PB
- Pete
- Ro
- Ron
- Rotary
- SL
- The Wedding
- Traffic jams
- Traveller
- VBF
- aliens
- aries
- being orange
- birthdays
- blood tests
- boss
- car
- car tax
- caravan holidays
- care home
- champagne
- chewing lemons
- childhood memories
- childrens
- chopski
- clothes
- coconut shampoo and conditioner
- complicated arrangements
- cynical
- date
- depression
- drinking tea
- driving fast
- evening classes
- exam results
- expensive
- false nails
- families
- first love
- flattery
- fuck
- getting back on track with Romeo
- getting drunk again
- getting my money back
- going off orange
- good news
- goodwood
- growing up
- gullible
- hair colour
- hair cut
- having cake
- hearing
- heating engineer
- his kisses
- holiday
- hot shower
- ill
- kissing
- knight
- ladders
- laptop working
- laptops
- laughing
- life choices
- life is good
- lovers
- loving grandparents
- maintenance
- memory lane
- moving furniture
- my big date
- my decision
- my new glasses
- my work colleagues
- nipper
- one of those days
- parents evening
- pissed off
- positive thinking
- presents
- rain
- red shoes
- relationships
- relaxed
- road works
- road works and portaloos
- romantic man
- sadness
- scared
- screaming
- sexuality
- sexy men
- shopping
- skirts
- spiders
- spring cleaning
- stupid woman
- swinging
- taxes
- tears
- valentines
- vanishing men
- vent
- very nice text messages
- vibrators
- views from above
- walking on the beach
- web cam
- wedding
- wyld cat
- #1 son
- #4 son
- 008
- ATM
- Abbie
- Alexnsuze
- Annie
- April Fools Day
- Aspergers
- Autism
- Barry
- Ben
- Bob
- Bollinger Byrd
- Broom lady
- Cathy
- Cherrie
- Cinderella
- Cold temperatures inside and out. Crisis
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- DVD
- Daren Callow
- Drinking lots of vodka
- Dunstable
- Embassy
- Father of the year
- Fiona
- Freddy
- GB
- GCSE results
- Gladys
- HRT
- Hail
- Harry
- Heather
- I need a man
- I will survive
- IT for Commerce
- Indian
- Inland Revenue
- Insanity
- Italian food
- Jade Goody
- James Bond
- Jane
- Jim
- John Barrowman
- Jump or pushed
- June
- Katie and Harry
- Katy
- Keyser Soze
- Knight in Shining Armour
- Lady in Red writes
- Learning to drive
- Leo
- Mamma Mia
- Max friday
- Mel
- Mother in law
- NEC trade show
- New Lad
- Officers groundsheet
- Out on the razzle
- Paolo
- Percy
- Poseidon
- Princess Tanya
- RL people
- Rat Girl
- Romantic Romeo
- Romeo is ill and I am helpless
- Ruby
- Rusty
- S type Jaguar
- SF Plumber
- Sam
- Scotland
- Sea View
- Si
- Stupid twats
- Surviving Blah
- TLC
- Tagged
- Temptress
- Territorial Army
- The Doc
- The Midnight Tree
- The Solent
- The great USA adventure
- Toby
- Toilets
- Tom boy
- Trublmaka
- Tutor
- Vi is the best
- WM
- Wayne
- Wheelie Bin thefts in my road
- Wilf
- Youtube
- Z
- a bit different
- a mother's worries
- acting out of character
- advice
- affirmation
- agony aunt
- air chaos
- all woman
- analysis
- andrew landon
- angry
- asbestos survey
- back pain
- back to my roots
- bad mother
- bad service
- badly behaved
- baggage
- bananas
- band tour
- battle to findmyself
- being a mother
- being grown up
- being myself
- betraying Romeo
- big big mistake
- bills
- birth of a new baby
- birthday cake
- birthday surprises
- bites
- bits and bobs
- black boxes
- blog book
- blogs closing down
- bloody contractors
- bloody toilet blocked again
- blushing
- book launch
- bovril
- boys going crazy
- bra
- breast photos
- breasts
- buses
- butterfly
- candle wax
- canes
- cant post anything
- captain
- career options
- cars I have known
- casdoc
- cats
- challenge
- challenging
- chatting up
- cheerful
- chemo
- chicago
- chicken sandwiches
- chief
- child's tears
- childrens story
- christmas eve
- cinema
- clever boy
- climbing stairs
- cloud has a silver lining
- clown
- cock
- cocktails
- cold and wet
- communication
- community
- companionship
- confessions
- confidence
- contented
- cooking again
- country pubs
- couples
- cowes week
- credit crunch
- crippled
- cross
- crying
- cunnilingus
- curse
- curvaceous Dee
- cut legs
- daffodils
- dancing until my legs ache
- danger
- daytime tv
- dazzed and confused
- dead
- death
- debts
- decadent
- deep blue sea and blue skies
- defensive
- deserted windswept beaches
- diesel
- dilemas
- discos n night clubs
- discovering the Hampshire countryside
- disrespect
- divorce
- doh
- dresses
- dressing up
- drinking lots of rum
- drinking to excess
- drums
- duke. la fille
- dunkirk spirit
- early mornings
- earthquake
- embarrasing moments
- emergency
- enthusiasm
- erotica
- errands
- escaping
- exams
- excellent reward
- excited
- exciting
- extreme weather
- fairy godfather
- falling over
- family life
- family taxi service
- fast food that isn't fast
- father's day
- feeling better
- feeling ill
- feeling let down
- feeling off colour
- fireworks
- first draft
- fixing things
- flying World maps
- fobbed off
- food diary
- football
- friday 22nd new friday 13th
- friend with benefits
- frivolity
- frozen
- frustrated
- frustration
- fun
- future fiance
- game
- garden fairy
- generous colleagues
- gentle
- gentleman
- george and falcon
- getting fit
- getting home
- girl talk
- girlfriend
- girls football
- girls night out
- glasses
- good chat
- good day
- googlemail
- government
- grandchildren
- grandfather clock
- great deal
- great lover
- greedy
- greener world
- grrrrrr
- gypsy
- halloween
- hand
- happier mother
- having a social life
- having fun
- health issues
- helping friends to help others
- helpless woman
- hero
- holiday photos
- home cooking
- homework
- hospital visits
- hot phone sex
- hula hoops
- hummer
- humour
- icing on the cake
- idiots everywhere
- imagination
- improving my life
- impulsive shopping
- incompetence
- insects
- intelligent conversation
- internet connections
- interviewing
- interviews
- its who you know
- jasper
- jealous
- jeans
- job interviews
- jobs at risk
- journalists
- just good friends
- just me
- karma Romeo
- keys
- kisses and cuddles
- ladies toilet
- late night
- laying ghosts to rest
- leather paddle
- legs
- life can be bad
- light at the end of the tunnel
- lingerie
- loneliness
- lonely heart
- long phone calls
- lost keys
- love life
- love songs
- lovely evening
- lover
- loving
- loving my job
- lucky
- lunch date
- lust and loving
- macmillan nurses
- madness
- magnetic force
- majestic structures
- maltesers
- maths
- meeting at last
- meeting for coffee
- migraine
- miss understood
- morning sex
- mothers
- mothers day
- mouse tricks
- moving on
- moving time
- mum's garden
- mums
- murder
- murder mystery
- my dad
- my body parts
- my breasts
- my dad
- my favourite views
- my first love
- my garden
- my health
- my paternal grandparents
- my week
- mystery
- mystery man
- nails
- naked pictures
- nasty things
- naughty lady
- needles
- new fantasy on LIR writes
- new glasses
- new me
- new readers
- new relationship
- nlp
- no heating Golf
- no internet again
- no internet still
- no money
- no style. Vincent
- not much
- nothingness
- numb
- odd messages
- office
- online flirting
- other bloggers
- our future
- overweight
- owning my cancer part three
- pain
- painting
- pampering
- paranoid
- part true part fiction
- party
- patience
- pay increase
- paying bills
- paying bills online
- personality
- pink
- pip
- plans
- police
- predictions
- promiscity
- promotion
- psychics
- quitting college
- quiz
- rabbit
- rant
- reading
- reading between the lines
- red cars
- red wine
- reservations
- respectability
- revenge
- ride
- rock gig
- roundabouts
- rugby
- sad
- sailing
- sandals
- saucy problem
- sausages
- school fire
- secret diary of a mother
- secrets
- seduction
- selfish
- seventh heaven
- sex blogs
- sex shop
- sex slaves
- sexy pictures
- shattered
- shooting stars
- shopping spree
- short story
- shots
- sign
- singing
- single men
- skirt
- sleep
- sleeping
- slides
- slim girl
- smiles
- smiling from ear to ear
- snowy easter saturday
- soap box
- social events
- socks and towels
- somebody
- somethings are just plain ugly
- songs
- sons
- sony ericcson c905
- sorting out my finances
- spaghetti
- spanking
- speechless
- spending bug
- spider
- spiderman
- spring
- squirrel
- star
- stars
- stepping out
- still flirting with Lotto
- stinking thieves
- stood up and let down
- strange happenings
- stranger than fiction
- stress
- strong characters
- struggles
- studying
- stylish
- suck
- suffering
- sun
- sunglasses
- sunny spring days
- sunset
- survival mode
- swings
- swooning
- sympathy
- talk talk
- taste
- teaser
- telephone lines
- telephone problems
- terminal
- the apprentice
- the bitch
- the dating game
- this thing won't let me write a post in the office
- time
- times of crisis
- too safe
- tools
- touch
- toy cars and tree climbing
- train travel
- travel
- travelling
- treatment
- treats
- trust
- umbrellas
- uncharitable
- unexpected bills
- unexpected connections
- unwell
- vacancy
- view
- virus
- voices
- walking
- warm summer afternoon breeze
- warwick university
- wedding guests
- weight issues
- weight loss
- went to gym for first time in 3 months
- white
- wind turbines
- windmills
- window man
- window still not fixed
- wireless computers
- womb
- wordless wednesday
- words
- working
- working at home
- worry
- writing
- x type jag
- xmas party
- yellows and oranges
- you
- young musician
- zip repairs
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8 comments:
Oh Gawd, you're kidding!!
Apparently, he's a very slow learner. Jeez!
I suppose I could say he is all over the place at the moment, but bollox to that, well rid!! xx
did you say 'your aving a laff matie aint ya'? lol
x
And hopefully you're clear that "No." is a full sentence. You certainly don't need to explain it. "No." works just fine.
(((((( LiR ))))))
Hi,
This is very good.
Nice to see you.
Thanks
If my ex ever asked me that, I think I'd punch him -- he left me....for another woman.
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