tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post911149283680510975..comments2023-11-05T11:22:41.060+00:00Comments on Lady in red: Real Life readersLady in redhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-65304528331590739492008-06-30T16:36:00.000+01:002008-06-30T16:36:00.000+01:00Bugger...I suppose that means i've missed all the ...Bugger...I suppose that means i've missed all the juicy photos..<BR/><BR/>ps I arrived here via the "morning glory" post, that I thoroughly enjoyed.<BR/><BR/>pps my blog is currently private precisely because my SO would so not understand my need to blog, however infrequent that might be.aka khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03236396615654013757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-30554203797829680642008-05-16T10:47:00.000+01:002008-05-16T10:47:00.000+01:00One thing I might do is to trawl trough the archiv...One thing I might do is to trawl trough the archives to make sure I don't have any pictures on here that I would not be happy with anyone new seeing. I think I already did that when I was 'springcleaning' a couple of months ago. but I don't think I ever put much in the way of really embarrassing pictures on here although I can think of one ..I can still remember Vi's reaction at the time. Perhaps Mulder will tell me if it is still there as he checked out all my photos recently.Lady in redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-43500391004590894392008-05-15T22:31:00.000+01:002008-05-15T22:31:00.000+01:00Ladies thank you all for your advice. At present I...Ladies thank you all for your advice. At present I have no intention of closing down, moving or going private. I did leave a comment here earlier but it doesn't seem to have stuck (perhaps its this new laptop). Anyway since then I have had an email assuring me that my blog and any other interaction has no connection with work.<BR/><BR/>I don't think I write anything that could cause me problems. I just write what I am thinking and feeling. I don't have any issues regarding my private life that have to be kept secret as I am a free agent not tied to anyone. I have not told Romeo about my blog but that is not because I don't think he would like what I write, more that he might find it hard to understand why anyone blogs. But if he were to read this he would be fine with it. Perhaps a little embarrassed about my feelings for him that is all.Lady in redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-10011085552088998492008-05-15T18:26:00.000+01:002008-05-15T18:26:00.000+01:00I agree with Vi. I would either keep more persona...I agree with Vi. I would either keep more personal things you wouldn't be comfortable having RL people read on a private blog or just remove personal stuff at least for the time being. It could indeed get very messy.<BR/><BR/>I have had to take the cautious route myself and for very good reason. Better safe than sorry and the last thing you must want is to censor yourself. That kind of defeats the whole purpose of blogging if you have to hide what you really think.<BR/><BR/>Good luck with whichever way you choose to go.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339140046788925506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-72288915494272195242008-05-15T14:48:00.000+01:002008-05-15T14:48:00.000+01:00Wow, it's amazing how we can go through similar th...Wow, it's amazing how we can go through similar things at the same time.<BR/><BR/>LOL at 'doing a Vi!'<BR/><BR/>Cake has the right idea, instead of 'moving' like I had to, maybe have a private blog for the stuff you don't want him, or more importantly, other people who may find out about it, to read (Or just remove the posts you don't feel comfortable with RL reading)Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-33245138632386764602008-05-15T13:47:00.000+01:002008-05-15T13:47:00.000+01:00There are three people in RL that I know read my b...There are three people in RL that I know read my blog but they are all people that I trust implicitly. I have been very careful to try to keep the two worlds separate. Im not sure how comfortable I would be with someone I was not close to in RL finding it. It's a bit like having someone read your diary. I think Id be tempted to do a Vi or have a separate passworded blog for anything really personal.Joanna Cakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-46195501419664775782008-05-15T08:54:00.000+01:002008-05-15T08:54:00.000+01:00i meant how much abt LV do you really know - i ini...i meant how much abt LV do you really know - i initially thought Bob was LV, err duh!Annie Wanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12385503768671197108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-15072527657752226792008-05-15T06:47:00.000+01:002008-05-15T06:47:00.000+01:00how much about bob do you really know? and from w...how much about bob do you really know? and from what you know - do you feel you can trust LV. I take it you don't want anymore people in RL to know about your blog. Then you should maybe have a chat with LV in RL and tell him how you feel. otherwise ... things may go the VI way - just bear in mind how she did it ...Annie Wanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12385503768671197108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-29855453294944693792008-05-15T06:30:00.000+01:002008-05-15T06:30:00.000+01:00Mel my Boss and Bob both know that I write they ha...Mel my Boss and Bob both know that I write they have even read some of my writing but only selected bits of fiction. Bob knows that I blog I have even shown him the comments everyone was leaving when Vi did her guest post for me when my home internet wasn't working back in November (but at that time I was still a temp and I didn't know I was going to be staying in the job). Whilst Bob likes what he has read he isn't interested in finding my blog. My one reservation is that LV will now have access to everything I have written both real and fiction.Lady in redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527870095382449976.post-30156224526092262482008-05-15T03:16:00.000+01:002008-05-15T03:16:00.000+01:00Oh boy..... Let's hope for Mr. LV to be an honour...Oh boy..... Let's hope for Mr. LV to be an honourable person.<BR/>Elsewise.....things could get very messy, very fast?Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14408403855260279799noreply@blogger.com